Sunday 1st June 2003
Good vs Bad Parenting

Kia ora dear XT readers.

Child education experts agree that what happens in the first few years of a child's life plays a major role in their intellectual development. Research has shown that for a child to reach it's maximum potential, it needs a nurturing environment.

My parents grew up when the rule was "children should be seen but not heard". If the child was noisy or naughty then they were chastised with a slapping or even a belting.

Each generation passes their habits to the next and only education can break the cycle of ignorance, mismanagement of childs needs and the ongoing misery. 

I myself went into parenthood totally unaware of my children's needs and I regret that very much. In my ignorance I focussed on my work and other self-centered pursuits, assuming that my children would somehow find their own way to normal adulthood without my assistance, just as my own parents had done.

I'm now an advocate for spending more of taxpayer's funds on nurturing children in their early years. Every government should make a priority of creating the right conditions for child rearing.

The present system is not working and the result is that we have an epidemic of maladjusted, violent young people that resort to drugs, vandalism and crime. The cycle continues.

Too many parents are forced to work hard just to provide basic amenities of food and shelter for their children and consequently have no time, or are just too tired to nurture their children in the proper way as nature intended.

The advent of maternity leave in some countries is a promising sign of positive change. Hopefully paternity leave will follow and eventually be an accepted custom. 

If we want a stable and peaceful society, then we have to begin by giving parents compulsory education in proper parenting techniques and then make it easy for them to spend more quality time with the children, especially during the early years.

Aroha nui until next month.


Dr John K. Flynn B.D.Sc.
The Xerostar Times Editor 
Caring for Creative People
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This Month's Country
New Zealand 

New Zealand is a country of rare seismic beauty: glacial mountains, fast-flowing rivers, deep, clear lakes, hissing geysers and boiling mud. There are also abundant forest reserves, long, deserted beaches and a variety of fauna, such as the kiwi, endemic to its shores. Any number of vigorous outdoor activities - tramping (hiking), skiing, rafting and, of course, that perennial favourite, bungy jumping - await the adventurous. You can swim with dolphins, gambol with newborn lambs, whalewatch or fish for fattened trout in the many streams. The people, bound in a culture that melds European with Maori ancestry, are resourceful, helpful and overwhelmingly friendly. The extraordinary place names - try Te Awamutu, Whangamomona or Paekakariki for tongue-trippers - are resonant and, with a modicum of practice, easy to pronounce.

Because it's such a compact place, travel within New Zealand - whether by plane, bus, rail, car or bicycle - is affordable and efficient. Accommodation too is cheap and varied. And the culinary promise of venison, fresh seafood, sublime ice cream and award-winning wines should more than whet the appetite.

Full country name: New Zealand
Area: 270,534 sq km
Population: 3.8 million
Capital city: Wellington (pop 345,000 )
People: 74% European (Pakeha), 13.5% Maori, 6% Polynesian, 6% Asian
Languages: English and Maori
Religion: Predominantly Christian (81%)
Government: Independent member of the British Commonwealth
Prime Minister: Helen Clark

GDP: US$85 billion
GDP per head: US$22,360
Annual growth: 2%
Inflation: 2%
Major industries: Food processing, wood and paper products, wool, textiles, dairy products, iron and steel, machinery, tourism
Major trading partners: Australia, Japan, UK, China and the USA
 

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Courtesy of Lonely Planet.com



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This Month's Quotation

"The successful people are the ones who can think up stuff for the rest  of the world to keep busy at." -- Don Marquis
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The Truth ! 

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